The College Recruiting Myth Even I Fell For

Yes, I believed this myth when I was going through the college recruiting process and I know that there are many, many families and players and coaches out there who still believe it today.

I recently mentioned that one of the most frequently asked questions I get here at AllAboutFastpitch.com is, “What should I do to get my daughter noticed?”

I had a coach respond that he gets that question all the time too and it drives him crazy.  He felt that if a player is good enough and has the talent, they’ll get noticed.

But that’s not the myth.  (You thought maybe it was right?)

Actually, I AGREE with this coach to a certain extent. 

He’s right.  If a player is phenomenal on the field and is a great player and athlete, chances are very good that they will get “noticed.”  HOWEVER (and this is a BIG however)… Continue reading

8 Great College Recruiting Tips

Guide to Athletic Recruiting Success

by Bill Conley – courtesy of NCSA

It takes a mature person to understand the keys to being successful and accomplishing goals. It is especially tough when the task is both physical and mental in nature. The steadfast and focused individuals are able to handle the ups and downs that eventually lead to success. The following is a road map for young athletes to follow if they are truly committed to being the best they possibly can be in their particular sport.

Keep All Doors Open

As an athlete, you need to give yourself every opportunity to succeed. The better you are in the classroom the more opportunities you will have in the future. Everyone would like to play at the top level of collegiate competition but we all know those opportunities are limited. If you are talented enough and dedicated, those chances may indeed come to fruition. The ultimate goal, however, is to end up at a school that is the best match for you. The better you are in the classroom, the more choices you will have from which to pick.

Be Committed

Once you have decided to make college athletics your goal, you need to set your game plan and be rigid in keeping your every action toward accomplishing that end result. It’s easy to stray from the disciplines it takes to be successful; only the strong-willed reach their goal.

Let Others Know Your Intentions

As an athlete, don’t be afraid to communicate your intentions. There are a lot of people who can be instrumental in the process. Relatives, coaches, administrators, and friends are just a limited example of those who can be important as you work to accomplish your goal.

Ask For Help

Even though the bulk of your success rests within tour attitude and your efforts, it’s smart to learn from those who have been where you want to go. It doesn’t matter if you’re talking about physical training, improving technical skills, or mental maturity; seek help from those who know what it takes to max out ones’ potential.

Work to Improve

As you go up the athletic ladder the competition gets tougher and tougher. Everybody you will face at the next level will be as good as or better than the best of the best you have already faced. The great athletes thrive on competition and know if you don’t get better you are doomed for failure.

Ignore Naysayers

Remember that not everyone you come in contact with is as dedicated and committed as you. There will be those who try to deter you along the way; even though sometimes not purposefully. Others will be jealous of your successes. It is crucial to keep your eye on the target and not get off track.

Be a Leader

Just as others have done for you, you have an obligation to pay back and pay forward. The examples you set may well be the standard other athletes will use as their guidelines in the future. Remember, the best leaders are those who lead by example.

Learn from Failure

The road to success is a rocky one. There will be ups and downs along the way and it’s important to not dwell on the shortcomings but use them as motivators. Every failure is learning and growing experience. Getting knocked down is going to happen, the key is to get back up and go again.

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Get Your College Recruiting Question Answered

One of the most common questions I get asked is: “What do I do to get my daughter noticed?”

When it comes to the subject of college recruiting, there are usually two kinds of people (and this goes for both parents and coaches):

1. There are the ones who actually know something about the process and typically have put forth effort to know as much as they can.
2. Then the majority of everyone else falls into the category of “clueless.”

Even the few that sorta think they know “something” about the process, for the most part, they are “clueless.”

Because this is such a hot topic and one that most do not get a second chance at, I’m giving you the opportunity to get some of your most pressing college recruiting questions answered.

Whether you’re a parent or a coach, let me know what you’re questions are. They can be about specific types of situations or just general, “What should I be doing for…?” type questions.

Leave a reply below with your question because I’m going to be talking with a woman named Joyce who works with student-athletes and their families on a regular basis. She also has a Master’s Degree in Sports Administration and has coached various sports including softball and basketball on the collegiate level.

Joyce Wellhoefer enjoyed a long tenure coaching softball and basketball at NCAA Division I, Division II and NAIA levels. She was named GLVC Coach of the Year and clinched a softball conference championship in 2000 with the University of Wisconsin-Parkside. Before coaching at the collegiate level, Wellhoefer earned her Master’s Degree in sports administration at Kent State University. While at Kent State, she worked with the women’s basketball and track & field programs. She began her career at the high school ranks coaching basketball, softball and volleyball. While attending college, she played basketball, softball and track & field.

So yes, this woman has many years of experience and the knowledge to go along with it and WE get to pick her brain! Pretty cool huh? Let me know what you want me to ask and I’ll try to get the answer for you. Simply leave a comment/reply below with your biggest college recruiting questions.

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